In the Bible, St. Paul made a curious statement.
In his letter to the Philippians he wrote, “In all circumstances I have learned
to be content.” Paul meant that his faith in Christ allowed him to be serene
and at peace regardless of the problems he faced.
Well, that’s fine for Paul. He only had
to deal with being imprisoned, beaten, shipwrecked, whipped, chased out of town
by a mob throwing rocks at him, and other minor stuff like that. He never had
to deal with serious things, like rush-hour traffic, or his computer crashing, or
not being able to find the remote control when his favorite show was about to come
on TV.
Back in Paul’s day, life was simple and
stress-free. They only had to worry about starving to death or being stabbed by
Roman soldiers. They didn’t have to endure the embarrassment of having a credit
card rejected while at a fancy restaurant, or getting a $200 speeding ticket
when everyone else was driving just as fast. Now that’s aggravation.
You know, I think if St. Paul lived in
our fast-paced world today, he would’ve changed his tune and wrote, “In all
circumstances I have learned to overreact and throw a hissy fit.”
Hmm, on second thought, maybe we can
learn a few things from St. Paul. After all, I suppose being beaten and then thrown
into a filthy dungeon without a trial might be almost as frustrating as, say, not
having a strong wifi signal.
Although America is the most prosperous nation
in world history, we Americans are some of the most stressed-out and unhappy
people in world history. St. Paul was content, even in the face of severe deprivation:
lack of food, lack of shelter, lack of freedom. We have all those things in
abundance, and yet we’re not satisfied. We complain. We get angry. We always
want more. We have no serenity or peace.
St. Paul possessed two things that most
Americans, including American Catholics, do not have. First, he had his
priorities straight. He knew the most important facet of life is to be in a
close relationship with God. Far too many of us think having lots of money and
cars and shoes and electronic toys is what life is all about, and if we have
any spare time on a Sunday morning, we’ll think about God for an hour. But if
God is not our first and most important priority, then we’ll never be at peace.
As St. Augustine said, “The human heart is restless until it rests in God.”
The second thing St. Paul possessed was
a clear understanding of the concept of acceptance. No matter what his
circumstances, he accepted that it was God’s will for him. Even when he was
wrongly imprisoned, Paul did not complain. He accepted his fate and knew that
God could make something good happen. And God did. While in prison Paul finally
had the time to write inspired and brilliant epistles, which are now part of
the New Testament.
Have you ever been stuck in rush-hour
traffic, and said to yourself, “I’m going to accept this situation peacefully
as God’s will for my life.” Yeah, me neither. But wouldn’t it be great if we
actually could do that, and accept situations we can’t control, and avoid all
that stress and anger and high blood pressure?
St. Paul didn’t have a smart phone,
credit card, or big screen TV. But somehow he was able to be content in all
circumstances. Maybe it’s time we did the same. After all, we have nothing to
lose except our ulcers.
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